Is Peer Advising for Everyone? (Yes, And Here’s Why)

When I first heard about peer advising for college admissions, I was skeptical. After all, how could someone who was just a few years ahead of me possibly understand my specific challenges and provide useful advice? Wouldn’t I be better off working with an experienced, professional counselor who’s seen it all?

But after diving deeper into the process and experiencing it firsthand, I realized peer advising was exactly what I needed—and it can be exactly what you need too. Let me explain why.

What Makes Peer Advising Different?

Peer advising, especially in the context of college admissions, is different from traditional counseling in a few key ways.

Relevant Experience: A peer advisor isn’t just someone with generic advice; they’re someone who’s been through the exact same process recently. They know firsthand what it’s like to craft a competitive application, apply to selective schools, and juggle multiple deadlines. Their advice is rooted in real-world experience, not just theory.
Fresh Perspective: Unlike a professional counselor, who may have been guiding students for years and thus might have a more traditional approach, a peer advisor brings a fresh perspective. They understand the latest trends in admissions, current application dynamics, and can speak to things like how students are now approaching test-optional policies or shifting to virtual interviews.
Affordability and Accessibility: Peer advising is far more accessible and affordable compared to traditional college counseling, especially for students who may not have the financial means to hire an expensive counselor. With Pathways, you pay per consultation, meaning you only spend money on what you need—no big upfront fees, and no pressure to commit to an entire package of services. This is invaluable for students on a budget.

Who Can Benefit from Peer Advising?

The real question is, who shouldn’t benefit from peer advising? While it’s easy to think that only certain types of students need this kind of support, I’ve seen firsthand how peer advising can help just about anyone navigating the complex world of college admissions. Here's how:

1. Students Who Need a Confidence Boost

Let’s face it—applying to college can be nerve-wracking. There’s so much uncertainty, especially if you’re the first in your family to go to college, or if you’re applying to schools with tough admissions processes. You might have a great application, but it’s easy to second-guess yourself. This is where peer advising really shines.

For instance, when I was struggling with whether or not I should submit my SAT scores, I reached out to a peer advisor who had applied to the same universities. She shared her experience about the pros and cons of submitting scores, which gave me the confidence I needed to make my decision. Talking to someone who had walked the same path made me feel reassured, and my anxiety about that decision was eased.

2. Students Who Need Practical, Specific Guidance

The beauty of peer advising is its flexibility. You don’t have to sign up for weeks of sessions. If you have a specific question or need help with a very particular part of the application—whether it’s understanding what makes a compelling personal statement or deciding between different schools—peer advisors are a great fit.

For example, I needed help with fine-tuning my extracurriculars section. My counselor had given me advice on the general structure, but I wasn’t sure if I was emphasizing the right experiences. I reached out to a peer advisor who had applied to a similar school, and she helped me see which activities would stand out and how to best phrase my involvement. This wasn’t something I could have gotten from a general counselor session. Peer advisors dive into the nitty-gritty details that can truly make a difference.

3. Students Who Don’t Have Access to High-Cost Counseling

Let’s not sugarcoat it: college admissions counseling can be expensive. Many top-tier counselors charge thousands of dollars for a comprehensive package. For families on a budget, this is simply not feasible. That’s where peer advising steps in as a lifeline.

With Pathways, I was able to find advisors who had applied to similar schools at a fraction of the cost. I only paid for the sessions I used, and I could select an advisor based on specific criteria that suited my needs—whether it was cultural background, academic interests, or admissions test scores. Peer advising allows you to gain valuable insights without breaking the bank.

4. Students Who Want to Build Connections with Recent Applicants

The college admissions process isn’t just about gathering tips—it’s also about making connections with people who understand the stress and excitement of applying. Peer advisors often go beyond the “what to do” advice and can offer a deeper, more personal perspective on how to navigate the journey. Their insights are fresh, relatable, and grounded in the actual experience of being a student today.

For instance, when I connected with my peer advisor from Duke University, it wasn’t just about the logistics of applying to Duke—it was about understanding what life as a student there was really like. What did they wish they had known before arriving? What clubs or activities had they joined? These kinds of insider tips gave me a more comprehensive view of what to expect and how to prepare for life beyond the application process.

Why Peer Advising Works for Everyone

In essence, peer advising works because it complements traditional counseling. Counselors are great for big-picture strategies, but sometimes you need a more hands-on, practical guide. Peer advising provides that. It’s flexible, accessible, and can be incredibly specific to your individual needs.

For those of us who are looking for that extra push—whether it’s to ease our doubts, refine an application, or just get a little more personalized advice—peer advising fills the gap that other resources can’t. It's the kind of support that empowers students, giving them the knowledge and confidence to make informed decisions at each step of the admissions journey.

I found that, for me, combining traditional counseling with peer advising was the perfect balance. The counselor helped me plan out my strategy, while peer advising filled in the details and gave me the confidence to move forward with each part of the process. The result? A stronger application, a clearer path forward, and ultimately, the confidence that I had made the best choices for my future.

Peer advising isn’t just for one type of student—it’s for everyone. Whether you need someone to help you make those small tweaks or someone who’s been there recently and can provide real-time guidance, Pathways’ peer advisors offer an invaluable resource that complements, and in many cases, enhances the traditional counseling model.

So yes—peer advising really is for everyone, and it’s something every student should consider using during their college application journey.