I Used Both a Counselor and Pathways—Here’s How They Worked Together
When I first started the college application process, I was completely overwhelmed. There were so many decisions to make—what schools to apply to, what essays to write, whether or not I should submit my SAT scores—and I was afraid of missing something important. I knew I needed guidance, so I decided to hire a college counselor. But as I quickly learned, the process wasn’t as simple as I’d hoped. That’s when I discovered Pathways, and it changed the game for me.
Let me take you through my experience and show you how using both a counselor and Pathways not only worked together, but how the combination helped me create the most competitive application possible.
The Counselor: The Big Picture Strategy
When I first hired my college counselor, I expected them to guide me step-by-step through the entire process. I thought they would help me craft the perfect college list, perfect my essays, and figure out how to present myself as the ideal applicant. And to be fair, my counselor did exactly that.
We spent hours discussing my strengths, what I wanted from a college, and how I could frame my achievements and passions. They were excellent at helping me build the big picture. They helped me understand which schools I should apply to—target, reach, and safety—and they gave me solid advice on how to position myself as an applicant. We focused heavily on crafting my personal statement and making sure I checked all the boxes for each school’s requirements.
But as I soon realized, the counselor wasn’t going to be available for every little question I had, especially when it came to the more nuanced aspects of my application. I needed more personalized advice—something that would dig deeper into the specifics.
Pathways: The Personal Touch
This is where Pathways stepped in.
After my first few sessions with the counselor, I still found myself unsure about a few things. My counselor had given me a solid foundation, but I wanted more. I needed to speak with someone who had actually been through the admissions process recently, someone who understood the details of applying to specific schools, and someone I could talk to in a more informal setting—just to get some quick advice without committing to another big session.
That’s when I turned to Pathways.
The process was straightforward. I logged into the platform and selected a peer advisor who had applied to a few of the same schools I was interested in. I could even choose advisors based on their major, SAT score range, and cultural background, which was key for me, as I wanted someone who understood my unique circumstances.
Within a few hours, I was connected to Sarah, a student at the University of Chicago, who had been through the same process a couple of years ago. I booked a quick 30-minute consultation. What happened next was exactly what I needed.
The First Consult: Refining My Application
In my conversation with Sarah, I realized how much I had been missing in terms of focusing on the smaller, finer details of my application. My counselor had helped me draft a great essay, but Sarah pointed out that I had overlooked a crucial aspect: my personal experiences with leadership.
“Your essay is solid,” Sarah said, “but you’ve told them what you did—now you need to show them why it mattered.”
Her advice was simple yet powerful. She helped me reframe one of my leadership experiences to highlight not just the results, but the lessons I learned along the way. She encouraged me to tie it back to my personal growth and how it had shaped my values today. This perspective was exactly what I needed to make my essay resonate with the admissions officers.
When the Counselor and Pathways Worked Together
The real magic happened when my counselor and Pathways worked in tandem. After my conversation with Sarah, I reworked my personal statement. Then, I brought it back to my counselor for another review. She was impressed with the changes, but she helped me refine it further by focusing on the structure and the flow of my narrative.
In a sense, my counselor took care of the broad, strategic elements—ensuring I had the right balance of achievements, personality, and future goals—while Pathways gave me those little, but crucial, tweaks that made my application more me. Pathways gave me the confidence to make quick, well-informed decisions when I felt stuck, and my counselor provided the structured support to make sure everything aligned with my long-term goals.
The Pathways Advantage
I think the true value of Pathways lies in its flexibility and accessibility. I didn’t need to book a full-length session or sign up for a long-term commitment. If I needed advice on a specific school or a particular question about my application, I could quickly schedule a consultation. And I always knew that the peer advisor I was speaking with had firsthand experience with exactly what I was dealing with.
For example, when I was unsure whether to submit my SAT scores to my reach schools, I spoke with Daniel, a student at Duke University, who had applied test-optional. He shared his experience and helped me understand the trade-offs, which gave me the confidence to make the right decision.
A Perfect Complement
In the end, using both a college counselor and Pathways was the perfect balance. The counselor helped me map out my entire college application strategy and gave me the professional, in-depth advice I needed. Pathways, on the other hand, gave me practical, real-world advice in smaller, more flexible chunks. Together, they made my application stronger and more authentic.
If you're wondering whether you should rely on a traditional counselor or explore a peer-guided model like Pathways, I’d say there’s no need to choose just one. The two can work together seamlessly. The counselor gives you the strategic guidance, while Pathways fills in the gaps with personalized, real-time advice that fits your unique needs.
For me, this combination was the secret to standing out in a sea of applicants.