Applying to College From 8,000 Miles Away? Here’s What Helped Me

By Amir A. (not his real name), Undergraduate Student from Egypt

The first time I decided to apply to a college in the United States, the idea felt both exciting and completely out of reach. Coming from Egypt, a country where the path to higher education was straightforward—one university to choose from, relatively low tuition fees for citizens, and a system that didn’t require essays or extensive interviews—it was hard to imagine what the American college application process would entail.

I knew I wanted to study computer science, but beyond that, everything felt like a giant puzzle. What were U.S. colleges really looking for? Was I competitive enough? And most importantly, could I even afford it?

I didn’t have the privilege of understanding U.S. culture or the education system from firsthand experience. I had never been to the U.S., and my parents had never gone to college, let alone navigated an international application process. So, I was left to figure it all out on my own—or so I thought. That’s when I found out about peer advising, and it completely changed my approach.

I was paired with Zoe (not her real name), a peer advisor from Canada who had gone through the application process a year before. She had studied abroad in the U.S. herself and had helped several students from around the world, so she understood exactly how daunting it could feel.

Our first call felt like a lifeline. Zoe didn’t just walk me through the steps of the application process—she helped me navigate the cultural differences and understand the mindset of U.S. admissions officers. She explained that U.S. colleges didn’t just want high grades; they wanted to see students who were passionate, curious, and ready to contribute to their community.

One of the things that initially threw me off was the focus on essays. In Egypt, our college applications were primarily about grades and test scores. But in the U.S., the personal essay seemed to carry so much weight. I struggled to understand how to frame my story in a way that would be compelling to someone who had never met me. How could I make my story stand out when it felt so different from the experiences many American students had?

Zoe guided me through this. She helped me realize that my story—growing up in Cairo, helping my family navigate our small tech business, and my fascination with computer science—was not just valid but unique. She emphasized that U.S. colleges were looking for students who brought something new to the table, and my international background, combined with my experiences in Egypt, offered a perspective that would be valuable on an American campus.

With her help, I began drafting essays that didn’t just focus on what I had done, but why I had done them. Why I was passionate about coding. How building a website to help local businesses in Cairo get online sparked my desire to learn more about the tech industry. Zoe helped me find the balance between presenting myself confidently without sounding boastful—a tricky line to walk for someone coming from a culture where humility was more highly valued than self-promotion.

Another major challenge I faced was the financial aid process. Coming from Egypt, the concept of need-based financial aid was entirely foreign to me. I was aware that U.S. education could be expensive, but I had no idea that there were scholarships and financial aid packages available for international students.

Zoe’s guidance on this was invaluable. She not only helped me understand the financial aid options I had but also encouraged me to apply for specific scholarships that I might not have considered. She explained that many U.S. universities offer need-based aid to international students, though it’s often limited. She also directed me to several scholarship databases, and I ended up receiving a partial scholarship from one of the universities I applied to, which made attending school in the U.S. more financially feasible.

When it came to interviews, I was initially nervous. I had no idea how to “sell” myself in a way that felt authentic. Zoe walked me through mock interview questions, encouraging me to relax and focus on what I could bring to the school. She explained that admissions officers weren’t just looking for the perfect student—they were looking for someone who could contribute to the community and who had a genuine passion for their field of study.

This advice made all the difference. I went into my interviews with confidence, knowing that I had a unique story to tell. I wasn’t just a number or a set of test scores; I was someone with experiences and perspectives that could enrich the campus community.

Finally, one of the most important lessons Zoe taught me was how to think about the bigger picture. While I had initially focused solely on my academic and extracurricular achievements, Zoe encouraged me to think about what kind of person I wanted to be once I arrived on campus. What would I contribute to the community? How would I use my education to make a difference?

This shift in mindset helped me approach the application process not as a checklist to be completed but as an opportunity to reflect on my personal journey and goals. It allowed me to craft an application that was not just about meeting requirements but about communicating who I was and what I hoped to achieve.

In the end, I was accepted into two of my top choice schools, and I received financial aid that made my dream of studying in the U.S. a reality. When I look back on the process, I realize how much easier it would have been without Zoe’s guidance. She helped me navigate the complexities of the application, understand the cultural nuances, and find my authentic voice.

If you’re an international student considering applying to U.S. colleges, my advice is simple: don’t go it alone. Find a peer advisor who has been through the process, who can offer insight, advice, and encouragement. Because applying to college from 8,000 miles away is challenging, but with the right support, it’s also one of the most rewarding experiences of your life.